Did you know?
Lube is the key to good anal sex. But you don't necessarily need to use a vat of it every time.
I highly recommend getting a silicone-based lubricant for anal sex. Water based lubricants can dry out and make things stickier and messier than they need to be. A good silicone-based lubricant like Eros or Wet Platinum will work wonders.
It only takes a small amount and you will be lubricated for hours. I was sold the day I went to buy some lube and the guy at the store put a small drop on my fingers. He told me to rub them together and to come back when it wore off. Thirty minutes later, I was at the cash register.
If you are going to use water-based lubricant, more isn't necessarily better. Water-based lubes dry out as they evaporate. Keep a small bottle of water next to the bed. Sometimes instead of more lubricant you just need to reactivate the lube you have with a couple of drops of water.
I like to use a misting bottle as the sensation of a cool mist of water both helps to keep the lubricant active, but also feels good on your partner and helps them relax. A nice mist can be quite sexual and adds to the overall effect of taking your partner into consideration.
