Twelve Tips to Ride A Guy!
1. Ride a Guy Clean
The very first thing you will want to do is make sure you are clean down there. One of the most embarrassing things that can happen is when you are riding a guy and something unfortunate happens. That's why beginner bottoms needs carefully clean and wipe to avoid these kinds of accidents.
There are many commercial products that you can buy on the market. Many gay men who ride guys report that OTTBA Enema Kit provides superior cleaning power while also coupling as a source for pleasure. It comes in a discrete box to your home and includes a small amount of lube. It's also FDA approved.
2. Ride a Guy Wrapped
The second suggestion that is to ride a guy with a condom. While it is true that we live in an age of PREP, there are still risks involved with the potential spread of various STIs.
The ultimate choice to ride it wrapped is obviously up to you. In committed, monogamous relationships, some guys who ride other guys opt not to wrap up. Some couples who invite in a third, which is factored into the wrap it up decision making process.
3. Ride a Guy Mindset
If you are going to ride a guy, it is important to be in the right mindset. This means being in a relaxed state of mind and not stressed out by the day’s events.
Some guys claim that riding a guy helps them to decompress and feel less stress. While this may be true, there is a difference between stress and anxiety.
Generally speaking, stress is the byproduct of cumulative events or responsibilities. Anxiety, on the other hand, is a function of mood. To help in both areas, consider listening to relaxing music or meditating may help bring about feelings of calmness.
4. Ride a Guy and Eating
One of the biggest turn offs for both the top and the bottom during ride a guy intercourse is the sound of bodily fluids and/or gas. This is why you don’t want to eat anything a good two to four hours before sitting on a guy.
If you are able to, reduce use of milk products and other belly bloating foods prior to intercourse. When you are gassy, it can act as a barrier to pleasure and potentially cause discomfort.
5. Ride a Guy and Size
One of the biggest myths floating around is that in order to experience pleasure when you ride a guy, the man needs to be large. While it is true that a big (fill in the blank) can be fun to play with, it doesn’t have to be enormous when it comes to riding a guy.
Guys who have an average size penis often can provide loads of pleasure when it comes to rectal intercourse. In fact, sometimes larger sized guys can cause feeling of uncomfortableness.
6. Ride a Guy Control
Just because you are doing the bottoming doesn’t mean you aren’t in control. While some men who ride guys identify as total bottoms, this doesn’t mean they are all submissive.
When you first start your riding adventures, make it clear to your partner that he needs to be slow and that you will control the rate and speed of insertion. Don’t let him get all commando on you and pretend he is a power-drill. There will be plenty of time for that later when you gain experience and confidence.
7. Ride with Your Hands
Part of the control step as previously mentioned requires the use of your hands. If possible, wrap your palm around your guy’s pleasure stick and give it a few quick “pumps” so that it is firm.
Once it feels hard, use plenty of lube on the top and sides of his man-candy. There’s no such thing as too much lube so be generous. Also, take some of the excess lubricant with your finger and wet the outer and inner parts of your rectum.
8. Ride a Guy Squat
If you are new to riding men, the easiest position to start out with is the squat. Here, you will lie your man flat on his back on the floor or on a bed.
Crouching over him and using the points mentioned above (particularly number 7), slowly and gently engulf his man-candy. Don’t try to rush this. Instead, do a little bit at a time, half inch by half inch. If you need to pause several times during the process, it is completely OK.
9. Ride a Guy Popper Free
Some guys who ride men suggest the use of a brown bottle to help create a more erotic experience.
As a general rule, anything that alters your awareness during riding has the ability to take-away from the experience. This includes other substances, such as alcohol or marijuana. Obviously, the choice is your but there’s something to be said about the natural experience.
10. Ride a Guy Breathing
When you first start riding a guy, it is important to control your breathing. You may be tempted to hold your breath during the insertion process. This is a bad idea because it causes your blood pressure to rise and heartbeat to increase.
Instead, take slow, deliberate breaths. Some men report that they are able to detach from their physical body through mindfulness based breathing techniques.
11. Ride a Guy Participation
Another helpful tip when sliding up and down a piece of man-candy is to get your guy involved. The truth is, you don’t have to do all of the work.
When the time is right, ask him to do some gentle thrusting. Nothing rapid or anything like that. Again, the idea is slow and gentle. By having him participate, you conserve energy while allowing him to be more active.
12. Ride a Guy Positions
Once you have reached a place of comfortableness, it is completely OK to switch positions. This means moving out of the “crouch” position mentioned earlier and doing something different.
Practical examples include lying on your back, “mission style” and doing in on your side. Additionally, for ultimate pleasure, you may want to let him ride you and take turns. Doing so can maximize feelings of intimacy and pleasure. For extended play, it may help if both of you wear a quality penis ring.
Your decision to ride a guy could be one of the most pleasurable things you will ever experience. It is important however to not feel like you have to master this activity the first couple of go arounds.
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